How do you tell someone who lives across the country or is even from another country whom you have never"met", how much their words of comfort and understanding have meant to an entire family?

How do you tell these "friends" that they have done so much to ease your sorrow and lessen the pain of your grief?
How do you tell them that they have played such an important role in helping one small family get through such a tremendous loss in their lives?
All we can say is THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS!!!!
And to those that took time out of your busy day to email me with your own stories and words of encouragement, You have made me realize how truly blessed I am to have friends both out there in Blogland and in real life!
This past Monday, my oldest son Joey brought Savanna home to me one last time. Her remains are in a beautiful wooden box craved with flowers on top. As you can see from the pictures above from just a few weeks ago that she loved being outside in the garden amongst the flowers.
She now is "living" with Joey who plans to create a little Memorial to her on a shelf in the Dining Area of his apartment.
How are we all doing you ask?
Joe and I are adjusting to our "new" life. At times, I think I catch a glimpse of Savanna sitting on the steps , looking out the front door. The hardest thing was coming home from work that first time in the morning and not having her there , waiting by the door with one of her toys in her mouth. At times, I think I can still hear the sound of her footsteps through the house.
But now, we can smile and even laugh about some of the wonderful things she did and the beautiful soul that she was.
We did celebrate Joe's Birthday this past Sunday and the boys are getting used to coming home to a " a quiet" house.
It is easier for them since they no longer live here and I am grateful that their pain is eased a bit.
Joe is still having a hard time especially in the evenings when he is alone as I am sleeping before I have to go to work.
But we are getting used to it...........
Once again, THANK YOU!!! to all of you for all of your kind and encouraging words! I cannot begin to tell you how much they have meant to us!!
I hope to return to Blogland some time next week. Until then.........
The RAINBOW BRIDGE
Much hugs to you all,
Debbie


21 Dabble comments:
Hello Debbie,
I am happy to hear you are feeling better. Savannah knew she was loved. Take care. Looking forward to your posts when you are up to it. God bless! Mary
Hi Debbie,
I am glad that you are healing little by little. It's such a sad thing to lose your sweet baby and I know it's hard. Savannah was so loved and loved you in return. I hope that you are blessed with her wonderful memories and little by little the tears go away.
hugs
Sissie
Debbie, I still miss our dogs that have passed even several years ago..they each had their own personalities and their presence is deeply missed. It gets better, but the sorrow lingers..especially when seeing one of their collars..but it does get better and its a happy sorrow if that makes sense..ours like yours, were well loved and they knew it..as did Savanna!
Hang in there, it gets better and what are left are wonderful happy memories..
hugs
Barb
Dearest Debbie;
I am so happy that you felt like posting today as you have been so missed! Those sweet pictures of beautiful Savanna touched my heart deeply. I still have my beloved Lili's photo as my screen saver and touch her face whenever I turn on my computer. I have even left a few of her tennis balls lying around so she seems nearer to me (and the cats like to lay by them as well).
If you feel up to it and are posting again next week I would like to email you as there is something I would like to do for you if it's ok.
Big hugs and much love ....Tina xo
We have an area in one of our gardens where our 3 white kitties are burried & we planted flowers & call it our "Kitty Garden"!!
It is amazing how much we love them......
Love to You & Joe!
Marilyn
Oh Debbie.. I'm just hearing this as I try to catch up and keep up with everyone these days. I am so sorry to hear about Savanna. My heart goes out to you, while my prayers are with you. Don't worry about visiting.. Just take care of you.. ((Love ~n~ Hugs)) ~tina
As you are in this transition time of grieving for this beautiful dog please remember to take care of yourself. I hope you are doing well and work is treating you okay. Have a good weekend♥olive
Take care Debbie & Family..hugs..
Wanda
I am so glad to hear from you. I know what you mean about thinking you hear or see our furry friends when they aren't there. That happened to me when I lost a beloved pet. Oh, what a sad time! We'll be happy to hear from you when your ready.
Carol
I feel your pain, sorrow and yes love from people that you don't even know after having lost not one but two family pets in just a matter of a few weeks. Both older pups, one a grand dog who lived with us, he was just 10 and lived only a few weeks after we found he had cancer and then our dalmation of 16 years. I thought my heart was broken but the kindness of others helped to ease our loss. Thinking of you!
Hi Debbie, I am so sorry to hear about your loving Savanna. Oh sweetie, I feel your pain dear, my heart goes out to both of you and I know it's very hard to go on without her. I'll be praying for you and your family. You and your husband did a wonderful thing by giving her the very best home she can possible have and that means everything. She had a very sweet loving face Debbie and I can tell she was very special...
Take Care and sending a Big Hug*
Hi, really they are always very special creatures in our lives! I also lost my special companions, one in 1998 (Blenda with only 6 years old), and in my post on Wednesday made a tribute to Babe (who lost last year to 12 years old). I often say that they have become one more little star in the sky, its Savannah, also became more of a star in the sky following you, hugs.
Fatima-Scrapart.
Oh Debbie Dabble - I'm so sorry. I've been where you are and the pain and emptiness is so hard to get through. She was such a sweet and beautiful girl. Sending you a hug and one for your boys, too. xoxo Nancy
Blessings of comfort to you and your family:)!
Kim
Continuing to pray for you and your family...
Xo, Mary
Gentle hugs and prayers my friend...
Leann
so sorry!! I know its hard!
Hi Debbie, I feel your pain, I cried like a baby thru the entire post! I will continue to pray for you and your family. Take care! hugs~~~ Daphne
I lost my retired racing Greyhound 13 years ago to cancer and I still grieve for her. Reading this blog brought back all the memories in a flood of emotion. It is horrible to lose a pet, but if I ever get the chance to have another Greyhound, I'll jump at it. It's good to have fond memories. You'll work through it. We're not meant to forget. Peace be in your heart. Jackie
Dear Debbie & Joe,
I am so sorry for your loss. My dog is 12 years old and I want to treasure every day we have with her. Savanna was so sweet.
Hugs,
Mrs. Higgins
I am so sorry for your loss, Debbie! (even belated) What a painful time! Savanna looks adorable and so lovely!
I just loss my dearest Flora and I have tears on my eyes when I read your words to Savanna.
I miss Flora so much!
With warm embrace,
Sonia.
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