For those of you who had playlist on their blogs and switched, Playlist has reinstated the automatic start .
If anyone does not care for my music, please feel free to turn it off but it is just a facet of my personality that I want to share with you!!
What doesn't kill us will make us stronger....
read more at the end of this post!
Currently I have my mother's bedroom furniture in our bedroom. Before my Mom passed away, we had Joe's Maternal Grandfather's bed in our bedroom. I had it in storage @ my inlaw's home ,thinking that I would use it in my guest bedroom.
Now my guest bedroom is small so I opted to keep my son's single bed set up in there.
I did not want this bed to grow legs and walk away at my inlaw's so we decided to use it in our bedroom again.
But first, we needed a new mattress and boxspring. I am too embarrassed to say how old my current one is but I will tell you it is in the well in the double digits......
My new pillow top mattress will be delivered Monday.......
Here is the bed before we had it set up in our bedroom.....
The headboard.....
Now I know that many of you would paint this bed.
However, this was in Joe's family for many years and not to gross anyone out, Joe's Grandfather died in this bed. Remember I don't have that same mattress. LOL!
So I am going to leave it as is with all the scrapes and marks of it's age on it.
I will post pics soon of how it looks in our bedroom.....
Now this is my new camera....
A Kodak Easy Share.......
Now I know many of you have expensive cameras.
This is not one of those.....
This was $129 in Target and I am having fun discovering all it does. I think it is a great buy for that price!!
Here is an example of what it can do......
Here is a pic taken in color with a Nostalgic look....
Same scene in vivid color.....
Same scene in natural light.....
In Black and White.....
In Sepia tone.....
Now if you have read this blog only once or twice, you know that I am a lover of Victorian and Edwardian times.
So I went a little crazy with this Sepia tone feature....
Hutch in my Den....
In my Dining Rom.....
Hutch in my Living Room....
Then I went on to play with the Night Time feature......
The back yard at night....
The patio with flameless candles lit....
And now for Kitchen updates.....
I mentioned before that we had a new light fixture installed. I opted for a flouescent one and chose Sunshine Bulbs which are recommended for rooms with little natural light.
The light fixture was installed about a week and a half ago....
Joe and I have just been able to take our sun glasses off......
LOL!!
It is bright alright......
We are used to it now but after having track lights in the kitchen that cast the light downward, it was an adjustment.
It does provide a lot of light when working in the Kitchen which is great......
Here are some pics of the kitchen with the light on.....
Ooops! You can see that I was making tomato sandwiches by the tomato still on the counter!!
Now I still decided to keep all of my ambient lighting in the Kitchen as we do not have the bright light on all the time.
I remembered that I was not using this lamp and decided to get it out of the attic and change the lamp on my counter bar.
My candle lights on my shelves....
More Kitchen updates....
A vignette under the desk/hutch....
I used some of my vintage Kitchen utensils and cookie cutters with an old loaf pan to create this little arrangement in an old crock....
Remember that I had only decoupaged one rose from my wall paper border on the stools???
Well, at the suggestion of my online friend, Patty from Texas, I added more roses.....
You were right Patty!! I think they do look better with more.....
Now I want to talk a bit about REALITY.
Some bloggers have recently posted about the reality of their lives and have mentioned that as bloggers, we try to portray ourselves in the best way.
I think this is human nature.
BUT......
After working full time for 32 years and working with a host of all kinds of people, I have learned one thing!
Everyone has a story and those who portray the Perfect Life, the Perfect Family , the Perfect Children and who have the Perfect Home, are usually the ones who are hiding the most....
I have also read on another blog about someone being intimidated because of not having a big beautiful home like other bloggers.
Everyone is different and did you often think that life in some of those big beautiful homes are not as great as you think?????
I don't want anyone to ever be intimidated when they come to visit me here at Debbie-Dabble or A Debbie-Dabble Christmas, not that you would!!
I live in a simple little townhouse and I have had to work full time my entire married life.
Joe has only worked for the Post Office the last 14 years and worked in factories prior to that. We have gone through factory shut downs where at one time, he did not work for over 2 years. That was when I was pregnant with my second son and actually faked my 6 week check to return to work in 4 1/2 weeks because there was no money coming in. Then when he did find a job, it was minimum wage.
So our lives are not perfect nor is my family nor is my home.
But I am HAPPY ( my word for 2011) with what I have.
And if I may go on, I was reminded of my greatest Blessings of all just this week.
The gift of TIME!
On Tuesday morning at 9 am, I started experiencing right sided abdominal pain radiating to the back. Now one of my realities is that I have Post Gall Bladder Syndrome. Even though I had my Gall Bladder out 7 years ago, certain foods still cause me to have pain like I am having a Gall Bladder attack and sometimes, just cause me to have massive diarrhea. I know, not pretty but it is the reality of my life and why I can not travel much. I am on medication that helps the diarrhea but not always does it help.
Anyway, the pain usually goes away in about 8 hours but it was getting worse and the back pain was increasing. Back pain usually means something with the kidneys and the last time I had pain like that, was caused by Hydronephrosis. This is when the urine gets blocked up and fills the kidney. I had a tumor in my right ureter. Luckily, I had the pain, went to the ER and they found the tumor just as it had started. They were able to remove it and save my kidney and since it did not spread , I needed no chemo or radiation because it was Grade One Squamous Cell Carcinoma.
CANCER.....
I was now having a similar pain.....
So we went to the ER on Wed. morning....
Long story short, I had a severe Cystitis, urinary tract or bladder infection ,causing the pain. I was put on antibiotics and I am feeling better now.
CT scan of the abdomen showed that there was NOTHING growing in there...
AMEN!
Once again, I was reminded how 5 years ago, I was given the gift of TIME.
TIME to spend with my imperfect family , in my imperfect home and to go on leading my imperfect life!
And to me, TIME is all that matters and not the imperfections and that is what makes me HAPPY!!
As I said in the beginning of this post...
What doesn't kill us , will make us stronger!
And I am one strong person!!!!!!!!
So what is your REALITY???????
I am linking up to these great parties:
Table Top Tuesday
WOW Us Wednesday
Out Door Wednesday
Rednesday
Vintage Thingie Thursday
Cottage Flora Thursday
Show and Tell Friday
Home Sweet Home Friday
Thanks so much for stopping by today and every day that you take the time to do so!
Hugs,
Debbie


23 Dabble comments:
First, I have that same lampshade with the fringe at the bottom on one side of my couch in my "garden apartment." Secondly, I love your house. So quaint and cozy and loved. So obviously loved. And I want to thank you for writing about reality. It seems a no-no word for bloggers oftentimes. And I am fervently hoping that that changes. Because from all the emails I'm getting, readers thought we were some sort of "special chosen bunch" because we did not seem to have "real" problems like they did. I never want others to feel like that. It must be a horrible feeling to think "those other women" have charmed lives. Because we don't.
Brenda
Hi Debbie! Gosh, I love your music, and as far as I'm concerned, those who complain about other people's music should just go take a pill and take a nap! (0; As always, I absolutely LOVE your kitchen! My friend actually did swing your way, online, to see "THE" kitchen I told her about, and she loved it too! In fact, I just noticed your Diner sign on the refrigerator, and I have that same one on mine! The kids got it for me!.. Now as for reality? I guess I haven't given a LOT of thought as to what people perceive as truthful or phony. I'm an honest person, but I treat my blog as a happy place (as best I can, most times).. I don't want it to be a place of gloom and doom and stress, so I try not to post that kind of thing there! I want it to be a happy place for myself, and anyone who visits there. Those who know me well enough, notice I don't post EVERY day, and thereby hopefully surmise that of course I face "reality" as much as anyone else! It's just that some things are private and personal. Somethings are NOT always HAPPY. But when I post whatever I do, I try to keep things "on the bright side"! It's not only nicer, I think, for my visitors, but very therapeutic for ME, in that it helps me to remember to be grateful, and to count my blessings!.. Anyways, I was sorry to hear that you weren't feeling well, but I'm so glad that you're feeling better now!... Jumpin' Jeepers! I've written a NOVEL for a comment, AGAIN!!!.. so I'll stop right here! (Sorry! LOL!)... Hope you're enjoying your weekend! ((hugs)) ~tina
Hello Debbie
I am glad you got to the ER quickly! I figure as long as your home is filled with Love ....you have the world by the tail and everything else will be beautiful! Have a wonderful weekend my friend! Your new camera takes wonderful photos..
Hugs,
Wanda
Hello Deb!
This was a beautiful and touching post. You know I always love seeing the pictures of your home. That new camera is fabulous! The bed is metal and painted to look like wood? It fooled me...it is beautiful and like you, I would not change a thing on it. My hubby's grandmother's desk is pretty scarred and scratched but it will remain that way. It is one of the most beloved pieces in our home. I did read a post about bloggers seeming to have the perfect lives, I have lived long enough to know better. My mom always told me everyone has problems, you just don't always see or know about them. I didn't know about bloggers being intimidated about showing their homes. I wish that were not so. Home is home....different for everyone. We live in a 70's ranch, no latest updates, but our home is a happy home. I do love seeing the homes of my favorite bloggers...the mcmansions just don't do it for me. I have written too much for a comment. I am so glad you are better. You dear friend have the wisdom to know what is important. I am so happy to have you as a friend...you make my life better for knowing you. Take care...talk to you later! God Bless!
oH i just love all the things your camera can do. I have a kodak but is not the Easy Share. Guess I should read my book and see just what mine can do. I am one that tends to figure out one thing and stick to that thing. Now I am courious if mine will do more. George just bought it for me for Christmas .
The kitchen just looks so wonderful. I enjoy the red and white theme throughout it. And so many wonderful displays. Loved the cookie cutters etc. in the old crock. I have been grabbing up old cookie cutters at garage sales when I find them to do a cookie cutter wreath for the holidays.
Sorry you have been not feeling well. Glad that you went in wuickly to find out the problem. And so glad that you are on the mend now.
I have noticed myself how many bloggers have such wonderful homes. Ours is from the 60's and we are redoing it when we have extra money but it is being done in a frugal manner.Nothing extravagant. I figure if people are going to not like me because I do not have a huge expensive home then they are not people I will be comfortable around. We are right now working on putting down new flooring in the laundry room. We looked and looked until we found something that we both liked but was not going to cost us an arm and leg to purchase and we are doing it ourselves. Or maybe I should say George is doing it himself. I did clear out the room for him.
I can not seem to do any real streneous work right now. Went through tests last week and should no this week if they are going to put in a pacemaker. I know I have to have one sometime in the future . Sometimes wish they would do it sooner rather than later. I feel I would feel a lot better if my heart was beating at the right speed.
I do enjoy your blogs. I can tell you love life to the fullest and are enjoying it as your are living it.
Hugs,
Karan
Time truly is a gift!! Nice features on that new camera. I use my daughter's and who knows what it can do...I just make sure it is on "AUTO" and click. Reality out my house is "frantic", we need to get my daughter's wedding dress (meaning me) sewn in the next 29 days! I am really good at procrastination, but it will get started and finished!! ♥♫
Frantic AT my house-I can't even proofread! ♥♫
I love that bed and I wouldn't paint it either. I really like the painted pieces that I've seen in blogs, but I'm too attached to what I have to change it that drastically. And I really don't need any more furniture.
Glad you got yourself to the hospital in a timely manner. Thanks for the reminder about everyone having their own story - that really is so true.
My brother was admitted to the hospital for kidney failure less than 24 hours ago and my daughter is divorcing her husband and has no place to live or job so is moving back home next weekend. My hubby is trying to learn how to live with a permanent disability which has changed our world totally - so, yes, we all have our stuff. We will get through this and I just appreciate everything I do have. Thanks for letting me share.
Thanks again and hope you have a good afternoon.
Hugs,
Marie
Hi Debbie, Happy Pink Saturday! Love your pink post this week, that bed is beautiful! Thank you for stopping by and leaving a sweet comment. I had the same exact thing last week, it's the worst pain isn't it? I've never had them in my life until after I went through the change of life, now I get them and each time worse than the last. I started taking the cranberry vitamins this week hopefully they will help. I feel the same as you, thankful for time each day that I wake up. I love every minute of my life!
Hugs, Shirl
Shirls Rose Cottage
I love that bed!!! So many pretties to look at in your home!
We have enjoyed half a dozen Kodak digital cameras. It does amazing stuff doesn't it? Keep enjoying that fun sepia tone. I loved you showing the different special settings it has.
Oh my goodness Debbie, I'm so glad it was "only" a UTI, and I hope you're feeling ok now.
I just love your whole home! I think it's the warmest and coziest I've ever seen! And if you ever get tired of that metal picnic basket, you know just where to send it!
Happy REDnesday,
Carol
Hi Debbie,
So glad you are okay and I hope feeling better soon. I have had this too and it is very painful. I was in the hospital this March for severe chest pain that was my esophagus narrowing. They had to do the balloon dialation procedure to open it.
What a wonderful post. I love the bed frame and yes, keep it just as it is. I would too.
Love your new camera and I can see you are having fun trying out the different looks. I also love the flameless candles on timers and have them all over the house and outside. They are awesome. Your home is so comfy and inviting.
I agree with your thoughts on reality. My hubby and I have faced more challenges in our nearly 38 year marriage then I care to think about. From sickness to death, job loss and more. But with our strong faith we survived. Life, and it's sometime difficulties, builds character. We are happy and thankful with life and the blessings we have been given. It's not perfect, but it's perfect for us.
Thank you for stopping by for tea. So nice to see you.
Love to you, Celestina Marie
Red is definitely one of your favorite colors. I have no red deco in my house, but love seeing them being used here.
Your home is such a warm and inviting place. I love seeing all of your treasures. Such beautiful pieces and you display them all so beautifully. Thanks so much for joining TTT. Hugs, marty
First of all Debbie, you are one person that has never portrayed anything but an average hard working gal! I am so glad your scan was nirmal Whew! I agree with you , I would never paint that bed!! My reality, I am a pretty normal gal and have seen my share of adversity, hubby left with the 24 year old and I was a single parent. Got laid off 2 years ago, devastating at the time, but worked out OK. Now is a good time in my life!
Carol
Debbie, you are so right. Time is truly a gift. I am grateful for each day and glad that you got a good report at the ER. Praying that the pain will leave soon,
Annette
Hi Debbie
I LOVE that bed. My Nan had one and after she passed it went to a distant family member who later trashed it - makes me sad. But it's only possessions right? And as long as we have our health we are lucky. So glad that yours is getting back to normal and there wasn't anything more serious.
Enjoy the 4th!
Leann
Your new camera takes great pictures! That is awesome that you have played around with the features and know what it can do. I just noticed your cherry canisters-VERY CUTE! I of course love your tin basket! :) So glad that your CT came back clear! I couldn't agree more on the gift of time, what a blessing! I am so thankful I am cancer free too! It is scary stuff isn't it???
Debbie....what a great post, all of it from start to finish. I guess I dont have the sense enough to care I just post and type what I want and don't worry about the rest. Like you said, it is very hard to post the truth, I do that sometimes, and it seems to touch someone when I do that as it confirms that what ever they are going through, they are not alone.....I never for once believe some of these people are that happy and perfect in their lives everyday....just is not true!!
Happy VTT....once again, great post! Glad all turned out well at the dr. :0)
Debbie,
Your new camera is a winner. I love the night shots of your pretty patio are and I like the sepia tones too, very Victorian. I like your old bed, I too won't paint family antiques. Someday we will all be stripping this paint off. I am so glad to hear you have a clear scan. You have added to lives of many as a nurse and it is wonderful what you do. Thanks for linking it to Home Sweet Home and have a great 4th weekend!
Sherry
I need to come up with a clever way to light up the gardens like you have. Thanks for linking up to Cottage Flora Thursday's! xoox, tracie
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